That my neighbor will stop telling me that it's time to stop mourning my husband. Mourning does not have a deadline. And that she stops telling me what to do and when to do it. I am 74 and I think I know how to live my own life. Please God, this is getting to me. She is younger than me and keeps telling me to sell my house and that "my lights are on and I should be in bed" .... its getting to be a real problem. I have lived here for 31 years and this is my home. Please pray that she will stop bossing people around. AMEN