Please, Holy Family help us. I pray that my son doesn't get blamed for his stepdaughter's misbehaving at school. He tries his best to be a great Dad, and he is. But, she was raised by unstable and abusive family members before he was in the picture. His fiance's family member even burned down one of his rental properties in a drug fueled psychotic episode.Whenever he catches her doing dangerous things, she becomes enraged and tells her grandmother he is SO MEAN, because she gets grounded. He's had to deal with being physically assaulted by the grandmother and the aunts. Just stands there taking a beating. His fiance sometimes feels torn.