Please pray that a shield is put on my mouth that my words cannot offend or cause additional problems. I always seem to make conflict every time I interact in the world. I can't win. I've been told not to say or do anything in the lives of my children. It's like holding a fire hose in front of a burning building containing everyone I love, and being expected to do nothing. Since there's a chance it might not put out that fire and save them, I should put it down and walk away. They act like it's a gasoline hose, when it's the cooling waters of healing. Help.